The thing about psycho girlfriends is that they give and give to their boyfriends. They try to put his happiness before their own. More often than not, the boyfriend stops reciprocating her efforts. When someone gives all they have to give to someone but receives nothing in return, that person becomes depleted. Being depleted is exhausting. Trying to fight through exhaustion makes people delirious. Do you see the chain of events clearly now?
Guys, you need to listen to your girlfriends more often. It will spare your relationship. If you notice problems, try to sit down and just talk through them. A little bit of fighting is okay, but constant fighting is not. If there is constant fighting over little things, do not brush it off onto your psychotic girlfriend. There is something structurally wrong in your relationship, and it is not the fault of just one party.
Girlfriends are also often accused of being too nosy — reading texts, checking pockets, hacking Facebook. The underlying issue here is trust. Honestly, if you have nothing to hide, let her look at your phone and tell her it is a one-time thing. When she finds nothing, she should be fairly satisfied.
It is innate to the human character to be curious. If people were not curious we never would have invented the wheel, stepped on the moon or found out that Liam is cheating on Miley. So do not dismiss her curiosity as insanity, because we are all curious.
Psycho girlfriends have a tendency to be clingy and to want attention. Well, why don’t you show her some attention? Goodness forbid that someone you chose to be with loves you so much that she want hugs, kisses and some time of day. If she is too demanding, tell her. Do not push her away. Confused and under the belief that you don’t want her, she will get upset and depressed. Upset and depressed, she will come off as crazy.
Whatever you do, do not call your girlfriend a psychopath. You have not seen your girlfriend act like a true psychopath until you have called her a psychopath. No one wants to hear that, and it is insulting. If she was not off-the-rocker before, she will most certainly be storming the wall of your sanity and patience next. It hurts to find out that your way of showing your love for someone has been interpreted as acts of desperation and psychosis. Don’t just call her crazy, break up with her and leave her stranded. She clearly loves you, and you loved her once too.
